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Tuesday, December 23, 2014

Act of Kindness – Week #24!!

“Christ Jesus is the reason for the season!”

 Why do we give gifts at Christmas time?

Let us first start with, “Who is St. Nicholas?” 
     “The true story of Santa Claus begins with Nicholas, who was born during the third century in the village of Patara. At the time the area was Greek and is now on the southern coast of Turkey. His wealthy parents, who raised him to be a devout Christian, died in an epidemic while Nicholas was still young. Obeying Jesus' words to "sell what you own and give the money to the poor," Nicholas used his whole inheritance to assist the needy, the sick, and the suffering. He dedicated his life to serving God and was made Bishop of Myra while still a young man. Bishop Nicholas became known throughout the land for his generosity to those in need, his love for children, and his concern for sailors and ships. Through the centuries St. Nicholas has continued to be venerated by Catholics and Orthodox and honored by Protestants. By his example of generosity to those in need, especially children, St. Nicholas continues to be a model for the compassionate life. Widely celebrated in Europe, St. Nicholas' feast day, December 6th, kept alive the stories of his goodness and generosity. In Germany and Poland, boys dressed as bishops begged alms for the poor—and sometimes for themselves! In the Netherlands and Belgium, St. Nicholas arrived on a steamship from Spain to ride a white horse on his gift-giving rounds. December 6th is still the main day for gift giving and merrymaking in much of Europe. For example, in the Netherlands St. Nicholas is celebrated on the 5th, the eve of the day, by sharing candies (thrown in the door), chocolate initial letters, small gifts, and riddles. Dutch children leave carrots and hay in their shoes for the saint's horse, hoping St. Nicholas will exchange them for small gifts. Simple gift-giving in early Advent helps preserve a Christmas Day focus on the Christ Child.”

     As you have just read, St. Nicholas was very compassionate and giving. He surely did several intentional acts of kindness! The popular Santa Claus today began with St. Nicholas’ story. However, the real message of Christmas is not centered on the here and now Earthly material gifts! Gift giving at Christmas is to remind us of the greatest gift that God has given to us, His son Jesus Christ! The typical gift giving at Christmas is to those whom you love/care about, whom you see often or to someone who has given you a gift first. I do not think I know of someone who has given a gift to a person who has been talking behind their back or an angry neighbor etc. I bet it has happened though and that makes me happy because God gave us Jesus when we were His enemies. We did not and do not deserve God’s gift of Jesus (Romans 5:8). Jesus shows us so much about the giver! What love, sacrifice, mercy and grace from God!
  

*The act of kindness this week...show kindness by giving to someone who is not on your gift giving list to help spread the good news of the greatest gift we have ever received, Jesus!

  The gift does not need to be expensive, just something thoughtful and kind given to someone not expecting it! I am posting this blog kind of late in the Christmas season but what better day to give than on Christmas Eve or Christmas day?! There are several places that have to stay open on both days. 

*My experience with the act of kindness…The Christmas party at my church this year for the women was called “Christmas Cookie Exchange on a Mission”. Each lady brought three dozen cookies for a cookie exchange. The mission took place after you left the party by giving a bag of cookies and a card (shown in the collage above) to someone who you would not think about giving a gift too. Examples suggested were co-workers, neighbors, police officers, fire fighters, your hair dresser, your doctor or your mail carrier.  
  

     One of the people that I shared a bag of cookies and card with was my mail lady! I have been home several times when she has delivered our mail. Unfortunately my dog, Jack, likes to bark at her. If she sees me in the window calming him down, she always smiles and waves! I left her gift in the mailbox before work one morning, and it was gone when I returned home! A couple days later, my husband and I received a Christmas card from her thanking us for the goodies! It sure put a smile on my face! We all seem to be a little more in a hurry with full schedules during this season, but I cannot imagine how much more work U.S. postal service workers etc have this time of year. I pray that our mail lady did not only enjoy a surprise gift but also read the truthful words on the card about Christmas and saw the information about church service times on the back of the card!
  

     Christmas is a time to remember and focus on the birth of Jesus Christ who was born to set us free from sin and to bring salvation by His death! Christ’s life is truly a gift! Merry Christmas!!

Please comment below with your own experience with this act of kindness! I would really enjoy hearing about it!!

P.S. The next intentional act of kindness will involve printed greeting cards of any occasion. When you are out after Christmas shopping, please look for great deals on Christmas cards for this! The only restrictions are that no cards from Hallmark, Disney or American Greetings can be taken. 5″ x 7″ size or smaller is preferred. Thank you and stay tuned for "Act of Kindness - Week #25!!" in January 2015!

Thursday, December 11, 2014

Act of Kindness – Week #23!!

"…It is more blessed to give than to receive.” Acts 20:35

   The Christmas season is in full swing all around us! It is truly one of my favorite times of the year full of family traditions, giving, receiving and focusing on/proclaiming God’s greatest gift to us, Jesus!!
 

*The act of kindness this week...show kindness by giving to a child in need or to a child that is not expecting a gift from you this Christmas!!

  Below are some examples of organizations and ways to help give to a child this December. It makes me happy that it was not hard to find or think of these! I simply went onto local radio station’s websites and saw what organization they were supporting this Christmas!

91.1 WBGL and 99.1 Joy FM – Compassion International (sponsor a child and gift catalog) http://christmas.wbgl.org and www.joyfmonline.org
Compassion International’s Mission Statement: “Releasing children from poverty in Jesus' name. In response to the Great Commission, Compassion International exists as an advocate for children, to release them from their spiritual, economic, social and physical poverty and enable them to become responsible and fulfilled Christian adults.” www.compassion.com

Youth In Need’s Mission Station: “To build on the strengths of children, youth and families so they find safety, hope and success in life.” www.youthinneed.org

98.1 Y98 – Toys for Tots (gift drive) http://y98.cbslocal.com/toys-for-tots-home/
Toys for Tots’ Mission Statement: “The mission of the U. S. Marine Corps Reserve Toys for Tots Program is to collect new, unwrapped toys during October, November and December each year, and distribute those toys as Christmas gifts to less fortunate children in the community in which the campaign is conducted.” www.toysfortots.org

Samaritan’s Purse International Relief - Operation Christmas Child (fill shoe boxes)
Samaritan's Purse’s Mission Statement: “Samaritan’s Purse is a nondenominational evangelical Christian organization providing spiritual and physical aid to hurting people around the world. Since 1970, Samaritan’s Purse has helped meet needs of people who are victims of war, poverty, natural disasters, disease, and famine with the purpose of sharing God’s love through His Son, Jesus Christ.” http://www.samaritanspurse.org/what-we-do/operation-christmas-child/

*My experience with the act of kindness…My church and I participated in the "Christmas Angel Mission 2014" sponsored by Mission Gate Prison Ministry in St. Louis! "Christmas Angel Mission 2014 is designed to bless children of inmates and ex-offenders with gifts, the Gospel and an invitation to weekly Angel Club meetings. This is accomplished by giving gifts by means of a Christmas party held in St. Louis. A fellow-up ministry is then set in motion and continues all year long. Every Friday night these "little Angels" are invited to Mission Gate Bible instruction, singing, praying and good old fashioned fun, food and fellowship." This year, I chose a four year old boy to give gifts too! I also participated in "Christmas Child" at my work and helped buy gifts for a 6 month old baby girl who is in a foster home!
    
                               


  There can be so much kindness and love shown when we do not focus on our own wish lists this Christmas and instead participate in helping give gifts to a child in need or to a child that is not expecting a gift from us! Some people might ask "why give gifts this Christmas to some one outside your family and friends?" The answer is more than just showing kindness and love! I hope that through this act of kindness we can help also direct other people's focus on Jesus being the reason for the Christmas season! God's greatest gift to us, Jesus, was born on Christmas day so that later He could die to save His people and give them eternal life! What a marvelous gift...now we should freely give!!

Please comment below with your own experience with this act of kindness! I would really enjoy hearing about it!!